Ways to Make Your Girlfriend Feel Special

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By revortay1

Every guy who is in a relationship should want to make their partner feel special and loved. Most guys however are confused when it comes to making their girlfriend feel loved. In fact women are probably the biggest example of a subject that confuses men across the ages. This hub will not be a once and for all answer to understanding women but it may help you to do things for them and to let them know that you care and make them feel special. So if you want to know a few ways to help your girlfriend know you care about them read on! And don't argue with me saying I'm just a boy, I was sure to ask my girlfriend before writing this hub. No ones perfect right!

Me and my wonderful girlfriend's first home coming. :]
Me and my wonderful girlfriend's first home coming. :]

1. Let her know that you have time for her and are willing to make time for her.

This is probably one of the main things to remember when with your girl. Because by doing so lets her know that she is an important part of your life. You shouldn't cancel all of your plans and devote every single waking moment of the day with her nor should you ignore her or cancel on her.

2. Know what to do when she's upset or angry.

Girls can be very different when it comes to emotions. Some spill there heart and some keep it bottled inside. Some of the time when a girl is upset she talks to someone close to her. Yes, that means you. When your girl is upset or angry know how to handle it and know how to make it better. Depending on your girl she might just want to blow some steam or maybe she just wants someone to listen to her.

3. Don't make the same mistake twice.

This is a pretty obvious suggestion. That means when you did something wrong and if hurt her, DON'T DO IT AGAIN.If it hurt her in the first place, it'll probably hurt her again if you do it a second time.

4. Compliment her.

Every now and then a girl likes to be complimented randomly whether they think so or not. Even the most simple compliments can make a girls day. Don't make the mistake of complimenting her 24/7 or saying the same compliment over and over again. Be creative about what you say and most especially mean it.

5. Respect her.

Respect is and always will be a big thing. You should never treat her in a way she doesn't want to be treated.

6. Don't forget special days.

This may sound a little dorky but remembering special days is a good way of letting her know that you remembered why that day is special between both of you or her. Whether its an anniversary or her birthday that day is special.

7. Know what she likes and doesn't like.

Common sense. Knowing what she likes is essential to a relationship. It's a part of her personality and part of who she is. If you don't know what she likes she can feel like you haven't paid her any attention or love. If you do something she doesn't like she can become insulted or hurt. You don't have to know her every single detail but enough to let her know that you've been paying attention. Also, don't be afraid to be involved in what she likes such as cooking or sports.

8. Don't be afraid to initiate actions.

A girl wants to know that she doesn't have to do everything in a relationship. A girl can get tired of always being the first one to call or text or even make the first move. A relationship is a two person job and needs team work. One person can't always be taking on the pressure and the responsibilities of a relationship.

9. Ask her about her day.

A question a girl likes to hear. Sometimes a simple "what’s up" doesn't exactly do the job. This is the time where you should sit down and listen to her. Without knowing how her day went you'll never know if she had a rough day or a good day.

10. Be romantic.

Should be self explanatory. Don't ask how to, I will write another hub on this later though!

Keep in mind, every girl is different and special in every way. That means if your girl isn't all for some of these suggestions then don't do them. These are just a few ways to let your girl know she has a special place in your heart when truly there are a million ways to make your girl feel special.

Comments

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miss_jkim Level 3 Commenter 22 months ago

Well revortay1, after your comment about just "being a boy" I will say something that I hope will not offend you.

It seems to me that your mother raised you right. Your points are right on and the one being the most important is "pay attention" to your partner.

Anyone who simply pay's attention to the other persons needs, likes and dislikes is moving in the right direction.

My mother told me that a relationship is not each person giving 50%, it's each person giving 100% and putting themselves last. If everyone did that, the world would be a much better place.

Nice Post.

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revortay1 Hub Author 22 months ago

Thank you very much miss_jkim for that comment! I am glad that you enjoyed this hub so much and I am also glad that what I was saying was valid. Thanks for the complement and I believe that your mother was very right in saying that. I will remember that advice!

Thanks again :]

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Glenn Stok 22 months ago

Guys need to be reminded of these things. Your hub applies to married people too. Very good work.

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revortay1 Hub Author 22 months ago

Thank you very much Glenn! I don't have any marriage experience but I am glad that this applies to all relationships! :] Thanks for reading!

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sameerk 22 months ago

Awesome hub

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revortay1 Hub Author 22 months ago

Thank you Sameerk!:]

Sam hall 21 months ago

Dude man this helped so much

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revortay1 Hub Author 21 months ago

Hey no problem! I am glad to be of help! I believe that every man throughout the course of his life needs advice on the opposite sex! :]

gojogojo 21 months ago

i want to say that to fack is not make woman to love

aditya 20 months ago

giving enjoy her

AN awesome

Philemon 18 months ago

True love is one of the sweetest thing that someone can go through,so if you find yourself in it handle it well.

Dat's all i can say

bye..........

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revortay1 Hub Author 18 months ago

I agree Philemon :]

faisal 18 months ago

greAT MAN!!!!

steve 17 months ago

i enjoy reading you hub it really work for me after reading and applying it in my relationship

thanks

Michael 17 months ago

this helped me alot thanks

Cereal 16 months ago

Thanks alot

Harazimi 13 months ago

Women are so complicated sometimes after doing all this stuff, you can find yourself to be lucky enough to be turned down by them. But for sure it those help alot. your work is great.

Kenny 12 months ago

Dude this really helped out haha my girlfriend saw this because I left it up on my screen and it made her so muchy happier that she knows im tryin! thanks dude

baps 12 months ago

i just read these and am praying its gonnna work

Edem 7 months ago

Thanks dude,,,hope this is gonna help....love it

Sovilay 7 months ago

Babe, i love you. But it's been 3 years, you think we could find a better photo? :)

and yes, i love going back to this hub. Makes me smile every single time.

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revortay1 Hub Author 7 months ago

Aw babe I love you more! But I like that picture :] Glad I still make you smile

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loveydoveyideas 6 months ago

You guys all need to remember that you are lucky to have her! Don't take her for granted by following the tips above. She will respond by doing the same romantic things for you :)

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revortay1 Hub Author 6 months ago

True that! thanks for the read!

Hugo 4 months ago

Thanks for the help! This really will help me make my girlfriend feel special. Thanks broskie!

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revortay1 Hub Author 4 months ago

Glad i could help :]

steel 4 months ago

every galz special in her way let hr b the princz bt nt to such a extnd that u become a shit to othrz

;)

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revortay1 Hub Author 4 months ago

I agree. It is very important that both people in a relationship have respect for the other or else it does not work!

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100ktrainer Level 1 Commenter 4 months ago

Very Nice Article... paying special attention to these things mentioned above takes effort. If you have a man that takes the time to make sure you feel loved and special, more than likely he genuinely cares for you. These are the signs of love.

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revortay1 Hub Author 4 months ago

Thank you for reading 100ktrainer!

Elise 4 months ago

I am so impressed! Your knowledge on how to treat a woman is commendable. They are all important though #1, 5 and 8 resonate well with me as those are the areas my bf of 2.5 years needs to work on. If only he could read your hub.... It's hard to tell him these needs without him feeling offended and calling me needy.

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revortay1 Hub Author 3 months ago

I'm glad I was able to impress you :P and I understand because most of this list comes from my long term girlfriend doing just that! I'm no proffessional but if you try to key him into what he is doing wrong and do your best not to sound as if you are trying to offend him hopefully he will see that it will make you happy and if he doesn't want to make you happy then well why be with him? :] Of course it is more complicated than that but I'm glad my article helped none the less!!

steven rodriguez 3 months ago

what if ur texting her or talking to her and u dont no what to talk about

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revortay1 Hub Author 3 months ago

If you have covered all of the basics like asking how her day was and what she is up to then try something funny! Honestly talking should come naturally and don't always put the pressure on you to make the convo exciting! Relationships are about giving and taking so give her a chance to make it interesting! :]

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Sherry Hewins Level 6 Commenter 2 months ago

It sound like you really "get it." Your girl is a lucky lady.

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revortay1 Hub Author 2 months ago

Thank you! :]

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