How to Make Her Fall in Love
76So you know a girl, maybe you have known her for a few years or maybe you just met her. Either way you know her, that's the important part. And you want to know how to make her fall in love with you now. Well it may be unfair to say that you can MAKE some one fall in love with you but you can be sure to make the cards fall in your favor. So muster up all of your courage as you read on and it will feel like you have been doing this forever. It's important to note that to make her fall in love with you it is imperative that you also love her, women are professionals at sniffing out insincerity! In this article we will be going over the key steps in how to make her fall in love. There will also be a few helpful tips so be sure to keep notes and you will have the girl of your dreams sooner than later!
The First Step in How to Make Her Fall in Love
The first step sounds the easiest however it can be a very hard habit to break. First thing you need to do to make her fall in love, is stop trying to MAKE her fall in love! Like I said earlier women are great at picking out a lie and are in turn great at figuring out when some one is forcing them into something. This will most likely chase her away at first or make her resent or question her feelings for you and leave shortly there after, both bad things!
So back to my point, the first step in making her fall in love with you, is forget about making her fall in love with you! Be your self, be kind and loving and she will instinctively be drawn to you. It's important not to be too lovey dovey of course because what we want is for her to WANT to fall in love with you. Hell we even want her to want you to fall in love with her! The thing is if she is getting claustrophobic from too much love and too much attention she will want to get out of there, and fast!
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The Second Step in How to Make Her Fall in Love
This brings me to my second point, making your self scarce. Now in case you haven't noticed yet the steps to making her fall in love with you are mostly counter intuitive. This one especially, you want to give her time to fall in love with you not just time with you. It's always good to have a little space when dealing with relationships and especially when making a woman fall in love with you!
This will add an air of mystery to the whole situation as well as give her a chance to realize how much she really is in love with you. It might be hard but you must do this to make her fall in love with you, say you always text her first, well let her text you first one time. Not only does this make you feel harder to get but it also lets you know that her feelings are actually there and she does want to talk to you.
It's also important to add that this is not an invitation to be a jerk! She won't stand for this! Even though it is some one true that women are suckers for the bad boys however this is never a good foundation for a relationship! You don't want to ever be mean or hurtful just to make her want you. It also goes to say that you shouldn't detach your self so much that she gives up!
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The Last Step in How to Make Her Fall in Love
The last part of making her fall in love with you is actually asking her out! It might seem obvious but a lot of guys mess up when it comes to this. You can't just ask you must show a little creativeness. Now it doesn't have to be your own creativeness, you can always check out other articles on how to ask a woman out. Why be cute now you ask? Well the answer is simple, you are trying to make the woman of your dreams fall in love with you right? Well what is she going to think when you put some thought and effort into asking her? She will think that you are going to put thought and effort into the rest of your relationship. (which you will right?) If you just ask it wont stick with her and neither will you!
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I agree with you about the fact that flowers and jewelry are very over used and should be used sparingly in a relationship to show ones affection. However this is not what I meant by being creative. Creativeness is usually different for every situation, say your woman's favorite candy is star bursts well then incorporate them into a cute little gift or message.
And as for my second statement I did not mean to ignore the relationship, however say you aren't living together it can be good to play a little hard to get to keep her feelings flourishing for you!
Thank you for reading and the great comment!
If you are trying to make a girl to fall in love means, she is not interested, but you are making her compulsion by showing her your best qualities..later it may be dangerous..
too many people care about lust and not love, its sad and hurts people. Good wording thoe :)
HattieMattieMae Level 7 Commenter 7 months ago
I think it should be natural, and of course you can't feel needy about the relationship. So of course the first statement is correct. Yet I don't remember any man really trying to convince me to fall in love with him. I've only been in love with two men in my life, the others were just for the sake of being with a guy.
The 2nd statement, I don't agree with because if the guy is not leading the relationship and showing he's interested, just tells me he is not going to pull the way in a relationship, house work, yard work, or financial help, or even communicating for that matter. If he's not working to get the relationship, he's probably to lazy, and about himself. The thing is women do like men to be creative, but at the same time flowers, jewels, etc, seems to be a trend, and manipulating. It's basically being a show off, and after the first few months, than the man doesn't do nice things after he's been with her. Guess it is a catch 22, be creative, but mean it with some backbone. Don't use it to just get a girl to like you, and than few months later expect her to put up with a man that doesn't feel he has to put any effort into keeping her. That is the biggest mistake men make. Showing off and not being themselves from the start. Than they find out later there girlfriend or spouse left them, because they were not that into her to begin with.